Chapter 1: Reflecting on the Year

As August draws to a close and we near the end of the year, I find myself pondering a pressing question: What am I missing? Each year, I seek a moment—something that serves as a guiding light for my journey ahead. However, this year, that moment seems to have eluded me. I refer to these moments as “TOP Points.”

What exactly is a TOP Point?

It's a concept I've developed to identify and navigate significant life events—those rare occasions when everything seems to change. A TOP Point stands for Trajectory Opportunity Path Point. Essentially, it serves as a barometer for my progress, ensuring that I’m not just coasting but truly advancing in life.

Since 2019, I’ve been fortunate enough to experience at least one pivotal moment each year. These events have often been transformative, sometimes even leading to increased income. Last year, I experienced two such moments. But this year? It feels like nothing has happened, leaving me with a sense of stagnation.

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While I recognize that growth can be a subtle process and that progress often unfolds quietly, these TOP Points have become essential markers for me, validating that I’m on the right track. In their absence, it’s challenging not to feel a sense of failure, as if lacking a TOP Point indicates I haven’t made any strides.

However, there’s a silver lining: my current endeavor—writing—could very well be my present TOP Point. It may not be the dramatic change I typically seek, but it might just be the first step toward something more significant.

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I hope you found value in this reflection. I’d love to hear your thoughts on these questions: Have you encountered a TOP Point this year? Or, like me, are you in a period of quiet growth, laying the groundwork that has yet to yield visible results? Share your thoughts in the comments!

Chapter 2: Embracing Feelings of Failure

In the first video titled "Watch This If You Feel Like a Failure," the creator explores common feelings of inadequacy and offers insights on how to overcome them. It's an uplifting reminder that everyone faces challenges, and it's okay to seek help.

The second video, "What To Do When You FEEL Like a FAILURE," provides actionable steps for reframing negative thoughts and embracing personal growth. It emphasizes the importance of self-compassion during tough times.