Find Meaning by Committing to What Matters Most
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The Essence of Commitment
Engaging with something significant can lead to profound life changes. It’s not just about the commitment itself but the journey it initiates.
As I settled down by the flickering flames, my thoughts flowed freely onto the page. Glancing at the vast night above, I was momentarily pulled away from my immediate surroundings, gaining perspective on my actions. Though I could have chosen any pursuit, I found myself immersed in writing.
Within each of us lies an indefinable force; it doesn’t fit neatly into any category and is unlike the energy present in anyone else. This force is fluid, evolving, and distinctly ours. Just as a mountain nourishes a river or a heart sustains veins, this internal energy influences our life paths. It manifests as our passions, skills, focus, and aspirations.
Writing serves as a conduit for me to explore life on a deeper level. While I yearn to make an impact and share my narrative, my primary goal is to better understand myself. I am driven by an innate passion for storytelling, a calling I wholeheartedly embrace.
The Inner Drive
Robert Greene, in his remarkable work, Mastery, reflects on a timeless truth articulated by the ancient Greek poet Pindar: “Become who you are by learning who you are.” This speaks to our inherent qualities and tendencies, which shape us as individuals. By tuning into our inner voice, we can discover our true selves and fulfill our destinies.
Each morning, my goal is to write something—anything. If I neglect this, my day feels unfulfilled. Just as trees rely on oxygen, I need writing to reach my full potential. It illuminates my essence, revealing my preferences, interests, and worldview.
As I’ve grown and honed my skills in writing, reading, storytelling, travel, and culture, I’ve committed myself more deeply to these passions. I believe this path is the best I can take at present.
Finding Your Commitment
What are your current feelings?
I often start my mornings by typing this question at the top of a blank document, eager to express something before life's distractions take over. This practice can be beneficial for anyone seeking clarity.
I rarely have a specific topic in mind when I begin. Inspiration typically arises from the act of writing itself. I’m dedicated to the process of sitting down and engaging with my craft; I’ve made a commitment to being a writer.
In a series of unexpected yet natural developments, writing has shaped my identity. I’m learning to articulate who I am through my words, and every day I recognize the importance of this practice.
“Pursue the closest thing to what feels beneficial right now, and engage with it,” advises Chris Williamson on his Modern Wisdom podcast. “The real gains stem from the commitment itself, not the specific task.”
This highlights the transformative power of commitment; when you dedicate yourself to something—anything—your life can change in extraordinary ways. You’ll begin to trust yourself more as you witness your consistency, leading to newfound confidence in your choices and skills.
Commitment serves as a guide on life’s journey—embrace it as a tool, not a burden.
The first video, "Jordan Peterson - Commit to Something!" emphasizes the importance of dedication in personal growth and fulfillment.
Trusting Your Path
How do we discern what to commit to? The answer is often intuitive.
The truths we seek are rarely straightforward, but we can sense what energizes us or drains us. What could enhance your life if you committed to it? A passion, a career, a health regimen?
Consider what you would pursue every day if societal expectations were irrelevant. Fyodor Dostoevsky once stated, “Never, never lie to yourself... What do you really care about and love? Who are you?”
When I write authentically, I can feel passion coursing through me. Regardless of external feedback, I know this is my purpose at this juncture in my life.
Embracing Change
Life is dynamic and can shift at any moment. It’s easy to feel trapped by past investments, fearing that changing direction would mean wasting time—a classic sunk-cost fallacy.
But we are here to explore, learn, and evolve. Each experience, whether a success or failure, contributes to our journey. Every step is valuable, potentially serving as inspiration for ourselves or others.
The Journey Ahead
If I go too long without writing, I sense a dulling of my creative spirit. Writing sharpens my vision of my aspirations and who I wish to become, even if that path isn’t clearly defined.
Joseph Campbell wisely noted, “If you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it’s not your path. Your own path you make with every step you take.”
I see a spark of possibility before me, and though I don’t know when or if it will ignite, I refuse to let go of that ember.
The Courage to Commit
Fear often keeps us from stepping outside our comfort zones. We settle for what is easy and familiar, even if it stifles our spirits.
However, true understanding of ourselves comes from the courage to pursue our goals. Only by engaging fully can we appreciate the fight for something meaningful.
When we commit wholeheartedly, the universe responds. The outcome may not always align with our expectations, but we move forward, closer to our aspirations.
Henry David Thoreau expressed, “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams... he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.”
By committing to something significant, you’ll be surprised at how it transforms you.
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