Chapter 1: The Illusion of Wealth as a Solution

Reflecting on my past, I remember a conversation that changed my perspective.

“Sweetheart, no amount of money can mend the wounds of the past,” I gently reminded her.

She wept, grappling with a harsh reality she was too young to grasp. In her innocent mind, she believed that if she could just earn enough, her parents would reunite. She envisioned a happier childhood filled with laughter. Determined to alter her fate, she took it upon herself to try and make things right.

This girl was me, now transformed into a woman. Throughout my life, I toiled tirelessly, unaware that my drive stemmed from a deep-seated desire. It wasn’t until the exhaustion from a long journey across Europe to Bali, under the strawberry full moon in June, that I began to confront these buried feelings. The full moon's glow awakened something within me.

As I lay in bed, fatigued yet restless, my thoughts drifted to my family's discord. The notion that money could fix everything resurfaced. This thought wasn’t new; I often concluded that I simply needed to work harder. But this time felt different.

I sensed the little girl within me, crying out in despair.

“Do you truly think that money can bring Mom and Dad back together?” I whispered to my younger self, taken aback by the innocence of her belief.

Tears streamed down her cheeks, and in a silent plea, she asked, “Isn’t it possible?”

“No, my dear, it doesn’t work that way.” I was struck by her naivety.

She wept through me, understanding that no sum of money could reunite her parents. Every hurt would linger. I held both of us close through the night.

With the dawn came a sense of relief and a fresh canvas of possibilities. If wealth couldn't heal the past, what purpose could it serve? How could I redefine its meaning?

Through my tears, I found myself smiling, and amidst the pain, laughter bubbled up. I embraced my inner child tightly and whispered softly, “Let’s embark on this journey together, for both of us. We no longer have anything to fix.”

My name is Lalita Janette, author of the nonfiction works “Good Girls Cry, Bad Girls Moan” and “Lalita, Come Back to Me.”

Section 1.1: Confronting Childhood Beliefs

Reflecting on childhood beliefs can be painful yet enlightening. It's crucial to recognize that financial success often does not equate to emotional resolution.

Subsection 1.1.1: The Power of Inner Dialogue

Chapter 2: Embracing New Possibilities

In this chapter, we explore how to transform our perspectives on money and healing.

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