A New You, A True You

To embark on this transformative journey, you must accomplish two essential tasks: Define who you want to be and have faith that you can achieve this vision.

Identifying your desired identity can be challenging, as it often evolves. One day you may feel drawn to one path, and the next day, you might feel entirely different. The insights into your true self are often scattered throughout your experiences—think of it as a puzzle needing assembly.

To complete this puzzle, you must listen to your inner voice, filtering out the distractions of the outside world. Cultivate curiosity and inquire, “Who do I wish to become?” The answer may be subtle, but it’s crucial that you pay attention.

Once you uncover your truth, prioritize that vision above all else.

Believing is Seeing

After determining who you aim to become, what comes next?

The most challenging aspect is cultivating the belief that you can indeed become that person. How do you nurture faith in something that hasn't yet materialized? The answer lies in manifestation.

Every moment, dedicate yourself to actions that align with your new identity. This is where spirituality enters the conversation—whether you believe in a deity, the universe, or another higher power, signs will appear to indicate you’re on the right path.

For instance, when I aspired to move to Spain to pursue a professional basketball career, I unexpectedly encountered an old friend in a Brooklyn club. During our conversation, he casually asked what I had been up to. I mentioned that I would be flying to Spain next month to play basketball professionally. At that moment, it was a fib, as I had no contract or team lined up.

Yet, I held an unwavering belief that I was destined for this path, having spent the last six months preparing for it. In my mind, I was already a professional athlete in Spain. Remarkably, shortly after that conversation, I found a team willing to sign me, and I booked my flight the same day I made my declaration to my friend. This experience exemplifies what I term "manifest destiny."

How can you cultivate this manifestation in your own life?

You must act as if you are already the person you wish to become. Initially, this may feel like self-deception, but over time, your subconscious will begin to accept this new reality. When your subconscious aligns with this belief, your actions will reflect your new identity until one day, it becomes your reality.

Begin by affirming, "I AM _______" and genuinely believe you are _______. Witness the transformation unfold.

Have you ever manifested something significant in your life? Share your experiences in the comments below.

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